I have recently been thinking about how to define abuse to those who don't know they are causing it, this was more like a self-check exercise. This is my humble outline so we can tell if we have ever been one.
Published April 8th, 2023 (Pakistan Time)
Abuse is not just physical.
Abuse is verbal.
Abuse is emotional.
Abuse is when you choose to tell the half truth.
Abuse is when you lie.
Abuse is when you say things to hurt, for hurt is harm.
Abuse is when you harm others for in any form.
Abuse is when you Gaslight
Make them cry
Tell them its their fault
Put their emotions against them
Blame them for opening up
Or telling a friend
what you did to them
Its speaking to others to cause a harm
To stir a storm
To spew hatred
To kill a vibe
To end a life
It's calling someone too emotional
Too sensitive or lazy
Or call them crazy
Abuse showing off a comfort
To those who don't have it
Purposely to take it
To a level where they fall
From the edge of the hope
Abuse is doing all this
And not apologizing
To those whom you owe it
To feel like it's beneath you
To go and admit
That you're a piece of shit
No matter what form
Or level of the harm
Remember of you did
Exactly this or more,
Ended a person's will
Nay, wish to smile and more
Then you're what I call
An abusive asshole -by Kayenat Hameed Khan